Friday, November 7th, 2008 by B.J.
I have a feeling that we may be asking ourselves that a few times as we head on out on this little exploration. But, honestly, I’m not 100% sure how it snuck up on us. Today, we left our home, our friends and my family to head out into the larger world for an indefinite period of time. I feel good…I feel sad…and I’m extremely excited. The dream I’ve had swirling in the back of my head – is morphing into reality!
We have had this planned for over a year now. And, although we have been preparing and organizing every bit of our lives over the past few months, we still ran out of time.
Now, we didn’t run out of time in getting ourselves in order. We starting with purging all of the excess in our lives…we sold it all…and a few of you out there got some screaming deals! We then started to acquire new minimized items that would fit the lifestyle we will be living – and also fit into a single backpack each (yes, that includes my office). It was then on to finances and insurance. Its amazing the amount of research you can put into somethine like this. From best international rates on credit cards, to atm fees, to health insurance options and on and on.
In fact, we ended up tackling items that weren’t even on the radar a few months ago. Refinance the house – sure, we had a few weeks left, why not? Hire a new employee to work alongside myself at Vertical Media – that’ll be quick and easy, right? In any case, it all came together after some long hours and some amazing “get ‘er done” skills from Lisa. We wouldn’t be ready if it wasn’t for her!
However, we still ran out of time to take in what we both wanted to before we left…Family and Friends. Although we were able to “see” almost everyone, each and every one of our visits was way too short and I can’t help but feel slightly empty on our departure. Yes, one of the greatest things we will miss is the little creature that has joined our lives for the past two years as he has no way to visit us…Good-bye Salsa. And although we have been living with my mom for the past 6 months, I don’t even feel like we actually said good-bye (but we will see you in March to celebrate your birthday!).
It is likely that I’m feeling this a bit more than Lisa tonight as we are currently headed to Phoenix (on the plane now with complimentary beers!) to spend the next two nights with her Grandparents. It is then off to San Francisco on Sunday night where we will stay with Lisa’s mother and step-father until Thursday with a going away bbq on Tuesday. Again though, it will be short, and we will be on that plane in only 6 short days!
The world awaits and my emotions are currently like the sea we are soon to cross. Troughs of sadness for those we just left, a building anticipation for what is over the next horizon, and pure excitement for every moment we are about to create.